Phobic alert: If you don't appreciate certain slithery reptiles, you may want to skip photo #7 below. One recent Friday afternoon, as the Wander Women hiking club set out on a segment of the North Country Trail, our leader Mary made a suggestion. "What would you think about doing part of our hike in silence, just listening to the birds and other sounds around us?" Now, we're a chatty bunch of women—so chatty that one name we considered for our group was the Walkie Talkies. But when Mary clarified that we could converse on the outbound part of the hike and be quiet on the return, we all thought we could manage that. So we hit the trail and found ourselves talking about—not talking. Gina mentioned a silent meditation retreat she'd attended. Being quiet during meditation wasn't a problem, she said, but it was a real challenge at mealtimes. A zealous foodie, Gina likes to ask questions about what she's being served, especially when the food is as interesting as it was at the retreat. She held her tongue, though, and just let it savor the tastes instead of wagging to analyze them. As we traveled on, passing by a lake and meandering along a stream, our topics of conversation covered varied terrain as well. We talked about books and movies, summer travel plans, the upcoming Enchanted Forest event, anything and everything that came to mind. When we reached the turn-around point, we paused to take a breather and tie up any loose conversation threads before starting the silent trek back. Soon, the shuffle of leaves beneath our feet, the gurgle of the creek and the rustle of wind through the pines engaged us as fully as our trail talk had. We did find ways to communicate, though, silently pointing out trail blazes, tree roots to avoid stumbling over and a daring hognose snake that had stretched out across the path. We did break our silence at one point, when we passed through a campground, and a camper made friendly overtures. But after exchanging pleasantries, we continued on in quietude. At the end of the hike, we took a few minutes to share our impressions. We'd all heard sounds we might otherwise have missed—from the creaks and groans of a swaying tree to the gravelly call of some unidentified creature near the lakeshore. We speculated about what sort of animal might have made that sound. My guess was a rail—a secretive, ground-dwelling bird that lives in marshy areas. Mary, unfamiliar with that type of bird, thought I said "whale." The look she gave me suggested she thought the silence had unhinged me. In fact, the silence had made me saner. Our weekly hikes always leave me feeling calmer and steadier, but this one gave me an even greater sense of peace. There's a reason for that, I learned by looking into the science of silence. Researchers who set out to study the effects of various kinds of music on breathing rate, blood pressure and blood circulation in the brain found that two minutes of silence between musical tracks was more calming than even the most relaxing music. (Read the study here.) In another study, scientists looking the effects of baby mouse calls and white noise on the brains of adult mice expected to find that the baby sounds spurred development of new brain cells in the adults. As a control, they also exposed some mice to two hours of silence a day. Guess what: the mice that got the silent treatment showed increased growth in the hippocampus, the brain area involved with formation of memories. The mice exposed to sounds, on the other hand, showed only short-term neurological effects, no long-term changes. I can't say for sure that my memory was any better after our silent walk in the woods. Then again, I can't say it was any worse. Maybe with a few more wordless walks, I'll remember where I left my camera case.
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Nita
5/10/2017 06:44:02 am
Thanks, Nan! I loved your perspective. I will be extra appreciative of the silence when I get it. :)
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Nan
5/10/2017 12:00:59 pm
It was probably all the more powerful, given how much we all usually talk!
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Rachel
5/10/2017 07:27:42 am
Love this-- made me realize how rare silence is in my life these days. I'm going to turn off the radio more often! (also love the group name walkie talkies- heh)
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Nan
5/10/2017 12:02:11 pm
I can imagine how rare it is in your life right now. I do recommend going radio-less at least once in a while. I like driving radio-free in my little pod of silence.
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Silence is golden--isn't that what they say? Enjoyed your report on walking silently through the woods. I remember floating in a boat on a river in Costa Rica and a time in FL when the guide had us be quiet and listen. Amazing experiences. From monkey calls in Costa Rica to bird calls in FL. I find I can only write when it's silent--no music and definitely no people around!
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Nan
5/10/2017 12:03:03 pm
Those must have been truly memorable experiences, JQ
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Debra Hanson
5/10/2017 09:20:52 am
Oh bow I'd have loved to be among you and your surroundings!
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Nan
5/10/2017 12:03:43 pm
Oh how I'd have loved that, too! Come on up, Debra.
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Emily Everett
5/10/2017 12:08:21 pm
That snake! (Hope you were using a zoom lens.) I might not have kept silent at that moment but love the idea of the silent walk.
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Nan
5/11/2017 08:37:29 am
Yes, I did keep some distance with the zoom. Still got pretty close, though. I was too fascinated to be creeped out.
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Sue S
5/11/2017 05:20:58 am
I enjoyed the silent walk back also. It's great to chat with friends, but the silence gave me a great appreciation of the spring blossoms, the emerging plants and hearing the sound of the wind through the trees and shrubs, each sound unique. Thanks for your perspective Nan, as always wonderful words you craft into a meaningful piece.
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Nan
5/11/2017 08:38:17 am
I love your way of expressing thoughts, too, Sue.
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Mary Papes
5/12/2017 04:59:02 am
Loved your entry, Nan, smiling with your summary. The willingness of our group to try something different speaks volumes. In trail talk, I wonder what's ahead for us.
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Nan
5/12/2017 08:11:41 am
I wonder! With this group, there's no telling!
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5/12/2017 09:42:33 am
I have enjoyed moments like this all my life, and they almost always include being in the woods. As a small child, I walked the woods at grandma's alone, and as a teen, I sat by a lake near my home "to think". But total silence while hunting in my tree stand is my favorite because I can listen to trees roll a breeze, animals skitter about, the crunch of leaves in Fall and the short of a doe standing behind in the snow. And I f I close my eyes the sound intensity is amazing - the closeness I feel with self and nature remarkable. And the experiences have lessons to share.
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Nan
5/13/2017 07:05:26 am
Another hunting friend said something similar. So glad you find peace -- in the woods and in these words.
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Katherine Myers
5/13/2017 06:07:18 pm
I usually have NPR on or the tv if I'm working inside, but when I'm outside, playing in the gardens, it's just me and nature (unless I'm being helped by a chattering two year old!). I love listening to all the birds, and usually there's a train whistle down the hill by the highway. Who am I kidding? There's always a train! But far enough away it doesn't bother me. Thanks for sharing your walk!!
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Nan
5/14/2017 05:53:52 am
I wouldn't mind a far-away train whistle, either. I can't hear all the birds any more, but I appreciate the ones I can hear.
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Sally Pobojewski
5/16/2017 07:09:29 am
Hi Nancy! I'm late reading your post this week and I'm so envious of your walks through the woods. At this point, I'd settle for a walk anywhere! I love silence when I can be outside, but I've had a bit too much of it inside these last few weeks. I hope it won't be too much longer.
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Nan
5/17/2017 05:55:16 am
I hope not, too, Sally. I know you'll be happy to be out and about again. Speedy healing!
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