If you've been a HeartWood subscriber for a while, you may remember the Last Wednesday Wisdom feature that appeared on the last Wednesday of every month. When I switched to publishing blog posts only twice a month--on the first and third Wednesdays--that feature went away, except for occasional appearances in months with an extra Wednesday. During these troubled times, though, I couldn't think of anything better to offer than a collection of wisdom from other minds. I hope you find comfort and inspiration here. Life is glorious, but life is also wretched. It is both. Appreciating the gloriousness inspires us, encourages us, cheers us up, gives us a bigger perspective, energizes us. We feel connected. But if that's all that's happening, we get arrogant and start to look down on others . . . On the other hand, wretchedness--life's painful aspect--softens us up considerably. . . but if we were only wretched . . . we'd be so depressed, discouraged, and hopeless that we wouldn't have enough energy to eat an apple. Gloriousness and wretchedness need each other. One inspires us, the other softens us. They go together. -- Pema Chödrön You only get one chance. You have one journey through life; you cannot repeat even one moment or retrace one footstep. It seems that we are meant to inhabit and live everything that comes toward us. -- John O'Donohue Prejudice of any kind implies that you are identified with the thinking mind. It means you don't see the other human being anymore, but only your own concept of that human being. To reduce the aliveness of another human being is already a form of violence. -- Eckhart Tolle When you can't find someone to follow, you have to find a way to lead by example. -- Roxane Gay Clouds come floating into my life, no longer to carry rain or usher storm, but to add color to my sunset sky. -- Rabindranath Tagore My sense of the holy . . . is bound up with the hope that someday, any millennium now, my remote descendants will live in a global civilization in which love is pretty much the only law. -- Richard Rorty We have to fight them daily, like fleas, those many small worries about the morrow, for they sap our energies. -- Etty Hillesum You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them. -- Maya Angelou You say to yourself when you are at liberty how desperate you are for your solitude, you love your periods of solitude, you scramble for it, you find ways of being by yourself so you can do what you want with yourself and your mind. But when you're deprived of it for a lengthy period then you value human companionship.
-- Wole Soyinka
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Sally Kane
6/3/2020 06:38:55 am
Each of these quotes gave me pause, like a balm. I especially connected to the one by Pema Chodren. These troubled times really call for reflection before reaction. Inciteful of you, Nan, to repost these quotes now.
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Nan
6/5/2020 12:20:12 pm
Thank you, Sally. It's a small thing, but I like to think small things add up and offer some solace.
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Kitty Kole
6/3/2020 08:36:39 am
I like the saying by Benjamin Franklin.. “Justice will not be served until those who are unaffected are as out raged as those who are”
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Nan
6/5/2020 12:28:05 pm
It's a great quote. Apparently, it's one of those that's been misattributed to Benjamin Franklin. Wherever it originated, though, it's worth sharing.
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Katherine Myers
6/4/2020 09:12:24 am
Etty Hillesum is the one that I'm struggling with at the moment--in the middle of the night when they are always magnified. But as John O'Donohue said, we only get this moment one time and I'm determined to make the most of it and not waste it worrying.
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Nan
6/5/2020 12:30:05 pm
It's a challenge, isn't it, Katherine? But worry does taint the present moment.
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Emily Everett
6/4/2020 01:20:51 pm
These all touched me, encouraged me and all brought tears. It's the yin and yang that Pema Chödrön speaks of. I need all the wisdom I can get these days so thank you.
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Nan
6/5/2020 12:31:16 pm
Same here, Emily.
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Sue Schneider
7/9/2020 03:52:28 pm
Another insightful and significant post. Eckert’s quote really moved my soul. Thank you Nan.
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